Pick and Choose Your Battles

Someone once told me that when it comes to relationships you have to pick your battles because some things just work themselves out in time. You just have to figure out what is worth dealing with alone so that the end result will be better and what is worth trying to talk about it but we all know that talking with men never goes over well. They will always point the finger back to you, you just have to be strong enough to know that no matter what is said and done you stood up for yourself and what you thought was the problem. Don't even let a man tell you that you are dumb for being bothered by something. They can't always see the bigger picture and almost never see things from your point of view.

It makes a lot of sense really when I think about it and look at past relationships, my current one and other people's relationships.

It's time I learn when to keep my mouth shut and when to speak up. Clearly I always get the two mixed up..




This is when you take a step back and ask yourself,
"Is this what I really want with my life?"